http://Sex.bitchbuzz.com:80/::Page:: en-gb BABE v1 Thu, 17 May 2012 07:39:59 GMT 20 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/lovehoney-reinvents-the-rabbit.html Have you ever wondered why, out of every single sex toy on the market, the rabbit vibrator was the one which got the most attention? Why did people rave about it? Why did Sex and the City mention it? Why did every woman need to own one of those ugly noisy things? Personally, I just didn't get it. Lori Smith Thu, 10 May 2012 12:02:27 GMT Sex 3947 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/how-to-have-better-sex-but-not-the-cosmo-way.html If the covers of women's magazines were to be believed, you'd think we were all on a quest to have better sex. Even if that's true, the thing is... we don't all want to do it their way. Trying a new position, completing a quiz or sifting through lists of tips to find the ones which work for us doesn't always seem like the right thing to do. Lori Smith Thu, 05 Apr 2012 09:33:41 GMT Sex 3930 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/eroticon-2012-writing-sex-right.html It may be news to some people, but women do write about sex. A lot of women! We write about doing it, feeling it and understanding it. We write about the concepts as well as the details. We tell true stories and create tantalising fiction. Occasionally, we like to get together and talk about it too. Lori Smith Tue, 13 Mar 2012 15:00:00 GMT Sex 3917 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/bitchbuz-review-dr-sadie-allisons-new-book.html Books of sex tips must be really difficult things to write. With most instruction manuals, it's usually pretty straightforward to come up with something about how 'that bit goes there' or 'try it this way', but it doesn't work that way for an intimate subject. Unless you're writing in a comedy fashion, no one really wants step by step guide to sex that reads like a software end user agreement. Authors have to work out who their book is aimed at, and find a tone that suits the audience... Lori Smith Fri, 02 Mar 2012 17:00:00 GMT Sex 3910 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/why-your-sex-life-is-none-of-my-business.html Why do some people think that being intensely sexually active is the only option for open-minded adults? If you haven't tried everything then they reckon you must be a prude. If you don't get down to business all the time, then they think there must be something wrong with you. Guess what... that's utter nonsense! Lori Smith Fri, 03 Feb 2012 14:00:00 GMT Sex 3877 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/festive-gift-guide-for-lovers.html Buying gifts for lovers can be a tricky business. They might already have a wishlist for the big items they're after, but what it you want to add in a little something else? Perhaps a present for them to unwrap when the family aren't around? At this time of year, many inexpensive items in shops are labelled as "stocking fillers" and a lot of them are useless tat. If you want to buy something that won't simply be put in a drawer and forgotten about, I may have just the thing. Lori Smith Fri, 16 Dec 2011 14:00:00 GMT Sex 3804 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/say-yes-to-21st-century-sex-relationships-ed.html Sex education is a very tricky subject. What exactly do you tell children about sex with out it being, well... weird? How young should they start learning about sex and relationships, and where do you draw the line on what to tell them? We may not have been getting it right in the past, but there is still hope for the future. Lori Smith Fri, 18 Nov 2011 09:53:23 GMT Sex 3749 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/should-consent-be-assumed-in-fantasies.html I have a bit of a problem. It sometimes affects my enjoyment of light-hearted pleasurable things and can cause people to use their 'confused face' on me when I tell them. It started a few years ago, but now I can't switch it off. My problem is... I just can't enjoy fantasies unless consent is very clearly dealt with. Lori Smith Fri, 11 Nov 2011 17:15:18 GMT Sex 3736 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/getting-off-on-good-vibrations.html Many women absolutely love their vibrators. They're great for when you're alone, when penetration is not enough, when you just don't have the time, and when you need a super-quickie to help you sleep. They come in all shapes and sizes and, if a buzz really gets you going, you're bound to find one which its the spot. Lori Smith Fri, 21 Oct 2011 14:00:00 GMT Sex 3685 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/the-health-and-safety-of-sex.html Sex can be a risky business. If you're not careful you could end up bruised, sore, infected or even pregnant. Even if you don't mind or actually intend for some of those things to happen, I'm pretty sure no one wants to get an STI. If an exchange of bodily fluids is taking place, there is always a chance - however small - that you might catch something. So, how do we protect against this? Lori Smith Fri, 14 Oct 2011 09:00:00 GMT Sex 3663 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/top-or-bottom-whats-your-style.html Top, bottom and switch - or versatile - are words that can be used to describe the role a gay or bisexual man takes during sex. They can also be used to describe the roles people adopt in BDSM play or relationships. However, they can can apply to women or vanilla folk too. It's not just about what you do, but is more about how you do it.... Lori Smith Fri, 07 Oct 2011 14:30:00 GMT Sex 3645 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/how-ethical-is-your-sex-life.html There's currently a big trend towards all things ethical. Whether it's food or fashion, if it's Fairtrade, organic or recycled, we will probably take a closer look because going "green" will make us feel better about ourselves. So why don't we do the same with our sex lives?Many people don't think of sex as something that can be ethical, yet sexual ethics cover a whole host of different subjects relating to human sexual behaviour. Although the  Lori Smith Fri, 23 Sep 2011 12:00:00 GMT Sex 3592 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/what-does-the-media-think-sex-is.html Some days I look at the newsstand and wonder if anyone in a position of influence in a newspaper or magazine company actually knows what sex is. That three-letter word often features prominently on front covers, but the articles behind the headlines rarely contain much of use or interest. Is sex really just a way to sell more copies? Lori Smith Fri, 16 Sep 2011 13:00:00 GMT Sex 3574 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/sexual-positions-are-not-a-to-do-list.html Why is it that some people are still obsessed with varied sexual positions? You'd think it was a game - like some kind of potentially orgasmic bingo - the way they go through lists and check off the ones they've tried. Does exploring sex in this way really make it in any way better? Lori Smith Fri, 09 Sep 2011 09:00:00 GMT Sex 3562 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/i-kissed-a-girl-because-im-bisexual.html When I was 19, I realised I was bisexual.  Quite a few years passed before I actually worked out what this meant to me, and even more went by before I told anyone other than partners and good friends.  In fact, other than with those wonderful people very close to me, I'm still only really 'out' about it online.  It might sound strange, but I don't think I'm the only one. Lori Smith Fri, 29 Jul 2011 14:00:00 GMT Sex 3471 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/where-are-all-the-sex-bloggers.html A daily dose of sex doesn't always have to be the physical kind. Stimulation our brains with a spot of sexual content is a great way to start the day, but reading a book of erotic short stories on the train to work isn't everyone's cup of tea. Now that the women behind Girl With a One-Track Mind and Belle de Jour have lost their anonymity and move... Lori Smith Fri, 15 Jul 2011 15:00:00 GMT Sex 3441 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/how-to-cope-with-a-lack-of-sex.html Anyone who is exposed to mainstream media on a regular basis is pretty much constantly reminded of sex. We are told how good it is for you, how we can have better orgasms and how to impress our lovers with exciting new skills. We get told how to attract people to do it with, and how to make those we've snared want more. But... what if we're not getting any, eh? How do the rest of us fit in? Lori Smith Thu, 07 Jul 2011 09:00:00 GMT Sex 3424 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/your-kinky-cherry-at-sacred-pleasures.html Everyone likes to try something new and, when it comes to sex, there is plenty of instruction on how to break out of your comfort zone and try new things. There are books, DVDs and even classes to help you add to your repertoire or see if something completely new is what you've always been searching for. Lori Smith Fri, 01 Jul 2011 19:00:00 GMT Sex 3415 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/the-best-sex-tip-ever.html OK, so you've found a hottie and you're playing safe, but next on the agenda is how to make things even better.  There's a whole host of positions, toys, porn and other sex tips out there, but how do you work out what's right for you?Well, there's one tip that works for pretty much everyone, no matter what you do with whom - use lube.  If you've never tried it, buy some.  If you've used it before, try it more often.  If you use it all the time, try a different one.  A ... Lori Smith Fri, 17 Jun 2011 17:31:27 GMT Sex 3388 http://sex.bitchbuzz.com/the-pleasure-of-anticipation.html In twenty-first century society, instant gratification is becoming more and more commonplace.  We hear a song and we can download it straight away, fashion in magazines can be bought online with a few clicks... but what about sex?  Do today's women really want it big, hard and now, or is there a hidden pleasure in waiting? Lori Smith Fri, 20 May 2011 14:00:00 GMT Sex 3326