Should We "Put Porn in its Place"?

By Lori Smith

According to Psychologies Magazine, recent increases in hardcore pornography online are having a terrible effect on children and young teenagers. As darker and more violent images are becoming easier for young people to find, the magazine has started a campaign called Put Porn in its PLACE to try and help.

At first, I thought this was a bit of an over-reaction. A Daily Mail-style "think of the children!" campaign designed to create outrage but only backed up with rather vague statistical evidence. Do children really search for porn online and, is so, is the stuff they find really that bad? We were all curious as youngsters and I know many people who learned a lot from pornography in their younger days, so are the kids of today really in that much danger?

In their article Are Teenagers Hooked on Porn?, Psychologies states that "The average child sees their first porn by the age of just 11. Between 60 and 90 per cent of under-16s have viewed hardcore online pornography, and the single largest group of internet porn consumers is reported to be children aged 12 to 17," but, with no links to statistical data to back up those claims, I was suspicious. I emailed the magazine to ask for further details but have so far received no response.

So, with no children of my own, I did what a lot of people would do. I asked the lovely folk on Twitter for help. Do they know if kids really look at porn on the internet? I heard back from a few people, some of whom work in schools, and through this I was reminded that it is actually quite easy to search for something relatively innocent and get a lot more than you expect.

Apparently, some 11-year-olds search for "hot girls" or "hot babes" on school computers. Fair enough, you might think, but I tried this myself and the fifth link Google returned in its results – after some expected FHM level stuff – was a site offering rather horrid free porn. I clicked on one of the video links and there was an advert alongside it for something called "18 & Abused".

That's not something a young teenager would necessarily have the knowledge to deal with. If kids are able to find images and videos like this before they have been properly educated about sex, are they going to think that this behaviour is normal? This was found using the moderate search though, which only filters out explicit images, so I would hope that schools and parents would have rather more strict filtering rules applied!

Even though I was initially suspicious of the campaign, I can now see that Psychologies really are doing a good thing. They are raising awareness of the issues behind access to internet pornography, something many parents may not have thought about, and are advising people on what they can do to help. I hope their campaign continues to get plenty of press coverage and make people think.

Image via Psychologies.co.uk

POSTED IN: SEX
Fri, 20 Aug 2010 15:11 (GMT+00)
2 Responses
1.

As a sidenote I find it ironic that the ad on the right hand side is "Sex- whatever you want it to be- provocative sex magazine". :p

Anyway, as far as I go- I'm not a fan of porn- I think you hit the nail on the head, 'people get a lot more than they expect'. To my mind, porn is used as an aid. So the first question is, why is an aid needed. Because the person needs help- a bit of a life- inspiration.
Fantasy in the brain is a powerful tool, powerful and dangerous. I'm writing from experience. I got hooked into fantasy/scenarios in my early 20's and it took almost 10 years to take me back to the place pre-fantasy where I have been able to fully discover who I am and why I needed fantasy so much.
It had a place, but its not who I am. Even now I still get random flashbacks to things I've thought, seen and said. And I get less guilt about it and more regret. Which I take to be part of the healing process.

Visually I've never got anything from porn- I'm always appauled at the platform plastic heels and fake french manicures, and the money shot (SO FAKE). But then I know thats because my interest is in ideas and themes- and not watching a fake movie with plumbers and housewives.

Taking this back to your theme- Porn and young people- very recently I was reunited with an old school friend via Facebook. We had hours of chatting on the phone talking about everything and anything. He told me he lost his virginity at 11 and dabbled in all things sexual from that point onwards. Looking at his life now, its clear to see the affects that had on him. He is unable to commit to any relationship and a self confessed sex addict totally de-sensitised to the more 'liberal' aspects of sexual play and constantly looking for the next high. Would he have been like this without the early introduction to intimacy and sex? Who knows. I can't help thinking not.

There is still too much Britishness attached to sex- we don't talk enough about it. With the advances in the internet- maybe this will go some way to addressing how we interact with each other and actually open up to the way we feel- rather than stumbling across the "Abused and 18" videos that will condition the brain in a very wrong direction. It will take a person from excited and titilated right through to a pervert and then confused. Why not skip that train wreck and just learn to love?

Cornflake Couture
Mon, 23-Aug-2010 21:09 GMT
2.

Being pretty liberal minded, I've been wary of the anti-porn debate in the past. However, I've recently been reading "The Brain That Changes" and when you realise the amount of research that has discovered quite serious consequences to regular porn use... We may need a public health campaign, similar to that of cigarettes and alcohol, so that people are properly informed in their choices.

Paradox
Wed, 01-Sep-2010 10:48 GMT

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